When You Find Comfort in “Things”

There is a trend in the decluttering and simplicity world that tells you that happiness lies in getting rid of “things”—that material items in your life are the problem.

And in some religious traditions, there is a tendency to say that you shouldn’t be turning to anything other than God for comfort in life.

But I’m here to say that it is okay if there are material and temporary things that are bringing you comfort right now—even if those things aren’t overtly spiritual.

And I say this as someone who is a spiritual, religious person of faith!

Of course, we should ALWAYS avoid addictions of any kind (including hoarding).

But that’s not what I’m talking about here.

I’m talking about the fact that during hard seasons that involve a lot of change or difficulty, you are not a bad person for finding comfort in material, temporary comforts.

Is your favorite sitcom or YouTuber getting you through a hard time?

Is that walk in your favorite neighborhood the thing that’s getting you through?

Are those fiction books that are filled with magic bringing you some much-needed joy?

If those things are good and bringing you comfort, is there a chance that those material things could actually be considered a gift from above that’s helping you get through a hard time?

Even for the religious/spiritual/faithful among us, we have the scripture found in James 1:17 that says,

“Every good gift and every perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of lights…”

So if that sitcom, cup of coffee, book, or any other cozy thing is bringing you joy (without causing you or others any harm), feel free to enjoy that without feeling guilty or worrying that you’re turning to the “wrong” things to help you get through a hard time in life.

If it is good, it is a gift. Let yourself enjoy it and be comforted.
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